Saturday, December 31, 2011
Culture Shock, Holidays, and a Much Needed Rest
Once we got back from Thanksgiving break, the rest of the semester just felt like a rush to finals. Between project presentation days, exam review, the final, and a party at the end, I only had to teach about 3 actual lessons. And even those were a little different than usual, as Jennifer and I ended up combining several of our classes. Our early (4:30) classes have always been small, but by the end it was bordering on ridiculous. Even when we combined the two groups, we averaged about 5-6 students. Thank goodness we're going to be testing and adding new students for 2nd semester.
The final party was great fun! We played a few games (such as blowing up balloons and stuffing them into a pair of nylons to make reindeer antlers) and did a white elephant gift exchange. In both classes it started out pretty tame, without any gift-stealing. But about halfway through they seemed to get into it, and that's when the fun began! One poor girl in our last class went home with an onion! We also taught them "Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" along with the add ins (ex. All of the other reindeer used to laugh and call him names (like Pinocchio!)) At the end (You'll go down in history) where I had always heard "like George Washington" and Jennifer had learned "like Columbus," we let them pick their own historic figure. One class picked the president of Kazakhstan, and the other a famous Kazakh poet.
I have a few more fun stories to share, but they go so much better with the pictures, so they'll have to wait. Once I find my camera (it's hiding somewhere in our apartment) and with it my memory card, I'll upload them. Or, at least, that's my plan. We'll see. :)
What with our final English club of the year, gift shopping, Christmas Eve dinner with all the Americans at Margaret's apartment, and more, vacation didn't really start until the 26th. But all the craziness was fun in it's own way. In order to have plenty of presents under the tree, we decided to have a cheap gift competition: we made a list of categories (smallest, biggest, most artistic, noisiest, most American, etc) and imposed a 200 tenge (about $1.50) limit. The results were pretty hilarious, and it made for a fun gift-opening time.
And then there was New Years. I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but New Years in America has got nothing on New Years in Kazakhstan! We just chilled out in our apartment until midnight, at which point everyone and their mother goes outside into the courtyard and sets off approximately a million fireworks. And we're talking the huge ones they do for the city 4th of July shows. It's unreal. And it lasts almost an hour. While out there we saw two men dressed in a Chinese dragon suit (it's the year of the dragon) taking pictures with people, and 3 different Santas. We also met one of our friends who lives across the courtyard and she invited us up to her family's apartment where they had a table set with fine china, wine, homemade salads (the mayonnaise-y kind), and tea. It was great fun as we're good friends with all three of the daughters and their parents are pretty awesome too. It was 3am by the time we left them. Now that's what I call bringing in the new year!
So there you have it- December in a nutshell. As fun as it has been, I am so grateful that we have another week before classes start again. I have serious plans to go off the grid for at least a few days and just chill. It's gonna be great. And in my more immediate future, I have serious plans to go to bed. So I'll leave you with a few parting words (taken from our toasts this evening/morning):
I hope 2011 was a great year for you, and that 2012 is even better. May there be more good times than bad times. May your life be full of love, friends, family, and good memories. Happy New Year!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Thanksgiving
This year was different from my past 3 experiences in that we didn't go away for the whole week. Since I left the last time, it's become tradition for the KZ team to go to Karkaralinsk (a mountain resort in a town about 3 hours away) for the first part of the week and then return to Karaganda for the holiday itself. While I would have loved having a few more days to explore the mountains, I'm glad we were able to celebrate Thanksgiving with all the Americans in Karaganda.
There aren't many adventures to share, besides Jennifer making friends with all the stray dogs in Karkaralinsk and Katina and I making another beautiful lattice-topped apple pie (if I do say so myself). But here are a few pictures to share the fun:
Dinner in the dining hall
Showing off our snow-caked jeans (it was knee-deep in places)
And just because it's my latest accomplishment, and I'm so dang proud of it- here's the pie Katina and I made (before the oven, of course):
I hope that all of you had a wonderful and memorable Thanksgiving as well! Happy Holidays!
Monday, October 31, 2011
Trick or Treat
The weekend was spent preparing for the party (pumpkin shopping, anyone?) and putting together our costumes. It's interesting to do it without the benefit of ready-made costumes and props, though Sara did find a shop with some cool stuff. She and Jennifer ended up portraying the 1940's and 20's respectively, and I got a chance to try my hand at victory rolls. Word to the wise- they are not so easy. We would have done better to have a bit more time to practice. But it turned out well enough in the end. Amy went as a clown and I, true to form, was still wandering around the apartment at 1am the night before looking for inspiration. I ended up going as a nun, though I felt more like Maria von Trapp.
Our class parties went well, although we were decidedly more organized with our second classes than with the first. We bobbed for apples, told scary stories, had a costume contest, and did a mummy wrap. Everyone had fun, and we now have sweets and beverages enough to last until the end of time (or at least Thanksgiving break).
After classes, we had our various non-student friends over for a second party. We ate a lot more of said sweets and played a few fun games. The evening took a more subdued turn, though, when the doorbell rang around 11:30, and not with cute kids looking for candy. Our upstairs neighbor had come down to complain of the noise and inform us that she had called the police. We quieted down, of course, and several of our friends hung around to talk to the police for us. We were so grateful for their presence. Not only were they able to translate, but they also were able to run interference with the police and reassure us, as locals, that it was nothing to worry about. In the end, we simply recieved a verbal warning and multiple reminders of the law about keeping quiet after 11pm. The policemen also took it upon themselves to usher our guests out the door before them. Needless to say, after this we will be imposing an 11pm curfew on our friends hanging out here. If we want to hang out more after that, we'll go to a cafe.
All in all, it was a (mostly) fun, event-filled day. Though the ending left a little something to be desired, it was certainly memorable. Never a dull moment when you live in Kazakhstan!
Wednesday, October 05, 2011
Pictures of Kazakhstan
Since I can't share those little pictures with you, I thought I'd try to paint some word pictures of life here, gathered over the last few weeks. So here you go- snapshots of Kazakhstan:
- Meeting friends just to go for a walk. Why do we hardly ever do this in the states anymore?
- We're ordering a combo at a fast food restaurant, and they won't allow us to choose which fountain drink we want, despite the fact that all three options cost exactly the same price. When we ask for a 7-UP, they simply point at the picture of the combo. See? It comes with Pepsi.
- Cramming four people, plus purses, school bags, and at least one computer bag into the backseat of a taxi. It was cozy.
- A big pickup truck parked in our courtyard one day and opened up the back to reveal hundreds of sacks of potatoes. He produced a scale and lockbox out of the back seat and then proceeded to sit on the tailgate calling out to passersby. I did not stop to buy some at the time, and have regretted that decision ever since. It has now become a goal of mine to buy potatoes from the back of a truck before the year is out.
- Some students were giving us a ride home after classes one evening and the guy was carrying a bag of trash for me (I was just carrying it until I could find a trash can). As we got into the car I noticed that he didn't have it, and figured he'd found a place to throw it away. Then I looked out the window as we drove away and yep- there was my trash bag sitting on the curb, all by itself.
- Walking a friend home after dark one evening. Our arms are linked as we navigate around mud and various puddles, and she's telling us about an old Kazakh superstition that if you give a baby a terrible name, it is more likely to survive. That's why some Kazakh names apparently don't stand translation!
- Buying milk in a bag. I don't know why, but it just cracks me up every time.
- We got locked inside our classroom in my first class one day. That's right. Locked inside. Someone from the school must have come by and thought the room was empty. We had to pound on the door and call out for someone to go get the key and let us out! :)
- On our way home one night, the marshrutka (mini-bus) stopped about 4 stops early and kicked everyone off. Apparently he just decided that he was done for the night!
- It's a beautiful day and the courtyard is full of people (50 or more): old men and women sitting on benches talking, mothers with strollers, little kids on the playground or chasing each other around cars with imaginary guns, boys playing soccer, clumps of teenagers talking or playing cards, people on their way to or from school, work, the bus stop, or the store, people hanging out their laundry to dry or beating their rugs... I love this kind of community!
So there you have it. Mental snapshots of my life here in the past month.
Oh, Kazakhstan... Sometimes you confuse me, often you make me chuckle, but mostly you just make me smile!
Friday, September 30, 2011
Teacher Appreciation Day
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Jump, Jive, and Wail
Swing 101 (minus Roma, Roma, and Jasin)
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Homecoming
What I didn't expect was the second feeling of homecoming I experienced when I flew into Atlanta on my way out of the country. Chick-fil-A, Quiktrip, Checkers, Steak and Shake, the Braves, sweet tea, a chch on every corner, southern hospitality... it would seem that no matter how far I travel or how long I stay away, I'm a southern girl at heart! It was so nice to get to see two of my best friends again, and my sister and her family. But it definitely made it harder to leave. As the plane rose higher and higher, I found myself watching for one last glimpse of home. As dramatic as it sounds, I just couldn't look away or let myself take a nap (though I was exhausted) knowing that when I woke up I wouldn't see it again for a year.
It got better when I got to Frankfurt and met up with the rest of my team. But I wasn't prepared for the amazing way our Father planned to help me through it. We got to Karaganda with no problems (though there was a little concern over our lack of transit visas in Moscow) and the director of our school was there with two drivers to pick us up and take us to our new flat. We arrived early in the morning, and as we were driving accross the steppe toward the city, the early morning sun shining on the grass, little villages and herds of horses in the distance, I was struck with how much I love this country. I LOVE this country, and this city, and these people. I am so glad to be back.
This is home, too.
How am I so lucky to have so many places to call home? Atlanta, Las Vegas, Houston, St. Petersburg, Karaganda... so many cities full of dear friends and memories. They say home is where the heart is. Well, to quote my friend Jillann, "my heart is all over the world." It's a beautiful thing. Our Father is so good.
Welcome home, Molly.
Monday, August 15, 2011
Shenanigans
Night #1: TP-ing the Vietnam room
Night #2: 650 balloons!
(we were up 'til 2am, but it was totally worth it!)
Thursday, July 14, 2011
A Willing Heart
After two years in Houston, I was excited to realize that I was being called to return. But this time the road had a few twists and turns in it. As you may remember, at first I asked to return to Karaganda. When it became obvious that I wouldn't be able to get a visa, they decided to put me on the team going to Azerbaijan. Then, only a few days before leaving Houston, my regional director called me and asked how I felt about Russia. As I mentioned in my last post, this time around has been a similar journey. From Vologda to St. Pete to Karaganda in only a few short weeks! It's enough to make my head spin (and it did!). But I don't doubt that it is His will, and so of course I said okay. So far so good. That was the easy part. The struggle that follows is much more subtle and prolonged.
This year in Russia was very hard at times, particularly first semester. This was due to several factors, but the one I recognized first was a kind of culture shock, only not from America- I was homesick for Kazakhstan and the life and work I'd had there. Even the littlest things threw me off. But rather than focusing on the symptoms, allow me to go straight to the root of the problem (something that took several months to do when I was actually in the middle of it): I was willing to submit to God in a moment, when they asked me to go to Russia. But in the long term, wearing-down process of submitting all my expectations and warm memories of how it was "in Kazakhstan," I folded. For months it kept me in a fog, making it difficult to grow attached to the places or people in front of me. How much did I lose to that? Now, having grown to love the city and so many dear friends and students, I mourn the loss of those months that could have been spent building deeper friendships and enjoying their company.
Now I find myself in a similar situation. Having grown to love Russia and so many people there, I am sad to leave them. Even to return to another country that I love. There's also the added difficulty that I have been to Karaganda before so, to a certain extent, I know what to expect. And anyone in ESI knows that expectations are just about the worst thing you can have going overseas. I am so worried that I will do the same thing again- that I will allow my memories of how it was to mar my experience of how it is.
This year is going to be completely different. Our team will be different. Our students will be different. Even the city itself will be different (I haven't been there in 3 years, and I've heard of all kinds of changes). I need the willingness to embrace the year that He has planned for me, not the year I remember or think it will be. I need the courage and strength to give up all those ideas and expect nothing except that He will be with me and that that will be enough.
This is not a battle that can be fought and won in one fell swoop. I don't know how many times I will have to lay my expectations down before I stop picking them back up again. It won't come easily. But it will be worth it.
If you would like to join me in lifting this up, I would appreciate it. I could use all the help I can get!
Sunday, July 03, 2011
Last Weeks, First Weeks, and the Near Future
Our last few weeks in St. Pete were super busy. I probably went more places and saw more things in the last 2 weeks than in the 9 months preceding them! Not to mention all the parties, get togethers, goodbyes, and last things. Here's a small sampling:
Baseball in the park with one of my linguistics classes (Athens)
Enjoying the Victory Day celebrations downtown Going for a walk with two of Erica's students, Lisa and Natasha
Day trip to Vyborg, a beautiful city near the border of Finland
Visiting a museum at Peter and Paul fortress with Natasha
A boat tour of the city with Masha
On our last day, several different groups of students dropped by (unplanned) and it turned into an impromptu going away party! Then Dasha and Arina came over to spend the night, though very little sleeping was done. They helped us finish packing up the apartment and stayed so we could spend every last minute together and then they saw us off in the morning.


On the way home, Erica and I spent a week in Berlin with our friend Toni (Antonia), one of the German girls we met in St. Pete. It was a great chance to hang out and see the city and to get a little decompression time between leaving Russia and arriving home.
These first few weeks at home have been a great break, though I haven't been sitting around doing nothing. Between cooking for my family and taking on some of the housework, organizing and labelling my pictures from the year, studying Russian, and reworking my lesson plans for next year, I've been very busy. But it's a different kind of busy, which is a break in and of itself! Plus I feel like I'm getting a great head-start on the year to come. Which brings me to my next bit of news...
It looks like I'll be back in Kazakhstan for this next school year! It's been a bit of a roller coaster deciding where I'll be teaching. First, the school in Vologda where I was hoping to teach backed out, so I thought I'd be in St. Pete again. But then, due to the difficulties in finding teachers who would qualify for a KZ visa, ESI asked if I'd be willing to return there. I only found out for sure after I'd already left Russia, which made my goodbyes particularly hard. I never knew if it was "goodbye until September" or "Goodbye for good." I'm definitely sad that I won't be returning to see my friends and students there, but I'm also excited at the chance to return to another city and country that I love. And all this country and city swapping is making sure my blog lives up to it's title!
So that's the long and the short of it. I'll be sure to keep you posted as I wait to see where in the world God will lead me next!
Friday, April 15, 2011
Molly: Unplugged
I've been to a few electronics stores here and no one seems to have the one I need. They all have universal ones that would work, but those are much more expensive. So it looks like I may be computer-less for the next month and a half.
Honestly, now that the initial shock is over, I'm kind of looking forward to it. I don't know about any of you, but I'm way more consumed by my computer than I have any right to be. Now that I've figured out how I'm going to pull off the rest of my lesson plans this semester, it's just a matter of getting used to doing things the old fashioned way again. It will take getting used to, but I think it will be good for me. There are so many things that I can do more of (walking, reading, knitting, drawing, cooking) when I'm not constantly distracted by the internet. I even played an old-fashioned game of spider solitaire the other day- you know, with actual cards! ;)
So here's to doing things the old-fashioned way! It's gonna be great!
Friday, April 08, 2011
Vologda, Baby!
Bowling with some of Timon and Andy's students
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Birthday Adventure
However, I got there before my next clue- so I was told to follow Joshua's example and march around the train 7 times (slowly, if you please!) After all, what are birthday adventures for but making me look as foolish as possible? :)
After lunch I was sent downtown to a bookstore Anne had discovered in the fall. Forbidden to take public transportation, though, it became an impromptu walking tour. One stop along the way were some griffins gaurding part of the Neva river. Apparently you're supposed to rub it's head and make a wish. I added the stupid face all on my own...
Pause for a touristy picture across from St. Isaacs Cathedral...
Once we found the bookstore, I had to go up and introduce myself to the cashier to get my next clue which took us to the пышки (doughnut) shop a few blocks away. One of my favorite little places in St. Pete, this restaurant/cafe has been around since soviet times. It's one of those hidden treasure type places, and it's always filled with locals. The line is usually almost to the door and the tables are always so full that if there are extra chairs at a table, other customers will just come sit down with you.
What you can't see in this picture is the dozen or so Russians behind the camera, looking at us like we're crazy! But it was worth it!
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Spring has Sprung!
- I haven't worn my hat, gloves, or a scarf outside for over a week now
- The snow and ice are starting to melt, though it's still piled taller than me on the side streets and in the parks
- The sun is out most days (as opposed to the 3-4 times I saw it throughout the months of November and December)
- On a walk with Anne earlier this week, we had our first encounter with Russian sunbathers- men and women who strip down to their underwear and stand (in the snow) against the wall of Peter and Paul fortress to soak up the sun!
March also brings with it Maslenitsa (or as I call it, blini week- blini being the super thin pancakes they make here), International Women's Day, and my birthday! It's a good month. :) To celebrate Maslenitsa, some of Erica's linguistics students from the fall (the same ones we went ice skating with) invited us over for blini. It was delicious, and a lot of fun, too. One of the girls had found a classic Russian movie with English subtitles, so we watched that after lunch. It was hysterical. I almost cried I was laughing so hard! Now I want to find a copy for myself to take home with me.
Women's Day was relatively uneventful for me, except that one of my linguistics classes gave me tulips. I told them that tulips were my favorite flowers, and they remembered and brought me some more for my birthday!
For my birthday, besides the shower of candy, flowers, and congratulations I got all day, My wonderful roommate promised to try her hand at homemade bagels! They were delicious, especially with the cream cheese she gave me that morning. And apparently there is some sort of birthday surprise in the works for tomorrow, but she's being very secretive. All in all, it's been a pretty awesome birthday. I'm telling you- March is a great month to be here in Russia!
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Flea Market
So now it's late, and I'm off to bed- with visions of art projects dancing in my head!
Friday, February 04, 2011
Billiards
My beautiful billiards partner
Anyone who has ever played pool with me will know that I'm terrible. But with all this practice I'm getting better. Arina, on the other hand, is awesome. But today a miracle occured! Due to the combination of me playing the best game of my life and Arina suffering from a spectacular bout of bad luck, I actually won! For the first time. Ever. Recognizing that this will probably NEVER happen again, I decided to take a commemorative photo- this is me aiming for the 8-ball for the first time ever. That's right- I've never even made it that far before!Who says miracles don't happen? :)
Monday, January 31, 2011
Snow, ice, friends... Russia! :)
I was trying to 'be dramatic' for the camera, but we usually only caught me almost falling down afterwards
Ella, Lisa, Natasha, me, Paul, Arina
Monday, January 10, 2011
Christmas x 3
Gena, the Christmas elf!
The most surprising event of the evening was when one of Erica's students presented us with a DVD player! This particular student has been to several of our movie nights and has witnessed first-hand our many struggles with the old one. Apparently he'd had this one for some time but never used it. I only wish you could have been there to see my reaction!
Our second party was for our international posse. Most of our German friends had already gone home for the holidays, but it was still a pretty good group of us.
We made it a pizza party and everyone brought their favorite toppings. It was so much fun (as parties with this group always are), and the pizza was delicious! While we ate we introduced the non-Americans in the group to "The Princess Bride." Someone gave us the game Jenga, so after the movie we decided to play. And as if Jenga isn't stressful enough, we made it even more interesting by saying that whoever knocked it over had to do the dishes. Talk about incentive! By the end of the game we were trash talking each other ("You hear that, Arina? It's the dishes calling your name") and trying to psych each other out as the tower got higher and more unstable.
The moral of the story: we have awesome friends and students. It was such a fun weekend. And then a few days later I got to fly home and spend Christmas with my family for the first time in 5 years! What a way to end 2010!
PS. All photo credits go to my roommate, the photographer! Actually, you can probably assume that for most of the cool pictures I post here!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
The Teapot Song
As some of you may know, every year I teach my students the song "I'm a Little Teapot." When they are late to class, their penalty is to sing the song for us, complete with the dance. It's become quite the class joke, and often late students are greeted with "Hello, teapot!" when they come in the door!
This morning I was running late myself because I had to print out their final exams, so I was preparing to sing to them. As I came up the stairs I looked up and saw several of my students on the landing above me. When they saw me coming, they all hurried to get to the classroom first- or so I assumed. But when I got there the room was empty. A moment later they all filed in with big smiles, apologizing for being "late"...
I love my students!
